Kelly Gray lighting a candle wearing sacred beads

About Kelly

Kelly Gray is a trauma-informed Transformational Coach, healer, and ceremonialist devoted to guiding women through the initiatory path of healing the Mother Wound and rising into empowered self-leadership. Her work weaves together modern psychology, sacred feminine wisdom, and energy medicine to help women move beyond survival, reclaim their inner power, and return to the fullness of who they came here to be.

Rooted in her own profound journey of healing from Complex Trauma and emotional neglect, Kelly brings a combination of grounded presence, deep compassion, and embodied wisdom. She knows the terrain of transformation intimately — the unraveling, the remembering, the rebirth — and carries women through this process with steadiness, insight, and unwavering respect for their sovereignty.

Kelly Gray on Pachatusan receiving a karpay with Mateus, a Pampa Mesayoq Paqo

In her coaching and healing practice, Kelly weaves trauma-informed wisdom, energy medicine, and sacred ceremony into holistic experiences that invite women into profound healing and self-remembrance. She creates spaces where the nervous system settles, truth rises, and women reconnect with the intelligence of their own inner guidance. Within this container, healing becomes initiation — a return to authenticity, wholeness, and self-leadership.

Whether through one-on-one sessions, workshops, or ceremonial gatherings, Kelly supports women as they release the weight of the past, reclaim their power, and align with their deeper purpose. Her work guides women into lives marked by empowerment, fulfillment, emotional maturity, and the freedom to rise into the woman they were always meant to be.

Kelly Gray with Inez and Edelyn, Curanderas of Niwe Rao Xobo in Pucallpa, Peru

Kelly’s training is extensive and interdisciplinary. She completed a graduate-level, year-long program with Dr. Gabor Maté’s Compassionate Inquiry Professional Program, specializing in childhood development, attachment, trauma, stress physiology, and addiction. She is also an International Coaching Federation–trained coach; a shamanic practitioner; a meditation teacher; a Reiki and energy medicine practitioner; a sound bath facilitator; and a ceremonial guide.

Her spiritual and initiatory path includes working with ayahuasca and completing Amazonian plant-medicine dietas with the Shipibo people of Peru. She is an initiated practitioner of Andean Mysticism in the Q’ero lineage — direct descendants of the Inca — where she trained in perceiving, attuning, and guiding energy for healing, balance, and transformation.

Across all her work, Kelly holds a clear belief:

Healing is not the end of your story.
It is the beginning of your initiation —
the moment you remember your power and step into the woman you were always meant to be.

Kelly Gray breaking plant Dieta in the maloka at Niwe Rao Xobo in Pucallpa, Peru
Kelly Gray at Pachatusan

Training and Credentials

Coaching and Trauma-informed Training

Compassionate Inquiry Professional Program
240-hour program | Psychotherapy approach developed by Dr. Gabor Maté

The Art & Science of Coaching
137-hour accelerated Professional Certified Coach (PCC-level) life coaching program | Erickson International

Advanced Master Program on the Treatment of Trauma
with Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, Dr. Stephen Porges, Dr. Peter Levine, Dr. Pat Ogden, and Dr. Deb Dana | nicabm National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine

Expert Strategies for Treating Narcissism Course
with Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, Dr. Stephen Porges, and Dr. Peter Levine | nicabm National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine

Compassionate Inquiry Short Study Course
Introduction to the psychotherapy approach developed by Dr. Gabor Maté

Gender-Inclusive Facilitation Training (GIFT)
ManKind Project

Polyvagal Theory for the Newly Acquainted Workshop
Dr. Stephen Porges

The Wisdom of Trauma
Conference

Trauma-informed Care Training
YESS (Youth Empowerment and Support Services)

Boundaries Training
YESS (Youth Empowerment and Support Services)


Training in Energy Work and the Unseen Realms

Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique (QHHT) Level 1 and 2
Developed by Dolores Cannon

Andean Sacred Arts
Foundation and Advanced Training in Andean Mysticism
A path of personal power and conscious evolution. Perceiving, tuning, and driving energy for healing of self and others in the lineage of the Inkari and Waskar.
Q’enti Wasi

Temple Guide
A four-month immersive program in the art of priestessing, circle facilitation, and ceremony design, blending inner initiation with practical skills to guide transformative temple spaces.
Priestess Presence

The Sacred Art of Anointing
A sacred training in the lineage of holy oils, where I learned to work with the ancient ritual of anointing as a practice of consecration, healing, and blessing for both self and others.
The Emerald Temple

BioGeometry Foundations Program
The study of geometric shapes, colours, and proportions to harmonize and balance the energy fields of living beings and spaces.
Dr. Robert J. Gilbert, Vesica Institute for Holistic Studies

Essential Teachings and Practices of Spiritual Science
Essential esoteric knowledge and practices to effectively experience Spiritual Initiation on the modern independent path.
Dr. Robert J. Gilbert, Vesica Institute for Holistic Studies

How to Use Crystals and Gemstones
Dr. Robert J. Gilbert, Vesica Institute for Holistic Studies

Shamanic Extraction Healing Training
Removing localized illness and pain due to spiritual factors
The Foundation for Shamanic Studies

Shamanism, Dying and Beyond
Psychopomp work: assisting spirits with transitioning
The Foundation for Shamanic Studies

The Way of the Shaman
Introduction to shamanism
The Foundation for Shamanic Studies

Meditation Teacher Training
Lifestyle Meditation

Cacao Ceremony Facilitation Training Certificate
150-hour program | Fly Kakao

Sound Healing Summit
Conference | The Shift Network

Introduction to Sound Healing
Kailee Smith Healing

Reiki Level 1/2
Kailee Smith Healing

The Art of Channeling Workshop Series
Sara Landon

Astro School
Evolutionary Astrology Training | Rasa Lila Healing

How to Trip Sit
Double Blind Mag

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