Kelly Gray lighting a candle wearing sacred beads

About Kelly

Kelly Gray is a trauma-informed Transformational Coach, healer, and ceremonialist dedicated to helping women heal from the Mother Wound and unlock their innate healing potential. Specializing in emotional neglect, the dynamics of empath-narcissist relationships, and the journey from survival to empowerment, Kelly blends science and spirituality to guide clients through profound personal transformation.

Kelly’s expertise is deeply informed by her own healing journey from Complex Trauma. Having navigated the path of transformation herself, she offers a compassionate, grounded presence and an empathetic understanding of the challenges and victories involved in personal growth and healing.

Kelly Gray on Pachatusan receiving a karpay with Mateus, a Pampa Mesayoq Paqo

In her coaching and healing practice, Kelly integrates trauma-informed training, energy medicine, and ceremonial work to create holistic experiences that foster deep healing and self-discovery. She provides a safe and empowering space for clients to navigate their healing journey, embrace their authentic selves, and step into thriving, empowered lives.

Whether through one-on-one sessions, workshops, or ceremonial gatherings, Kelly is committed to helping women heal from their past, align with their true purpose, and create lives filled with fulfillment, empowerment, and joy.

Kelly Gray with Inez and Edelyn, Curanderas of Niwe Rao Xobo in Pucallpa, Peru

Her training is both extensive and multifaceted. She completed a year-long graduate-level program with Dr. Gabor Maté’s Compassionate Inquiry Professional Program, studying the science of childhood development, trauma, nervous system regulation, stress, and addiction. She is also a certified International Coaching Federation-trained Coach, a shamanic practitioner, meditation teacher, reiki healer, sound bath facilitator, and ceremony facilitator.

Kelly’s spiritual journey includes working with ayahuasca and completing Amazonian plant medicine dietas with the Shipibo People in Peru. She is an initiated practitioner of Andean Mysticism in the lineage of the Qero—direct descendants of the Incas—and works with energy dynamics to perceive, tune, and guide energy for healing and transformation.

Kelly Gray breaking plant Dieta in the maloka at Niwe Rao Xobo in Pucallpa, Peru
Kelly Gray at Pachatusan

Training and Credentials

Coaching and Trauma-informed Training

Compassionate Inquiry Professional Program
240-hour program | Psychotherapy approach developed by Dr. Gabor Maté

The Art & Science of Coaching
137-hour accelerated Professional Certified Coach (PCC-level) life coaching program | Erickson International

Advanced Master Program on the Treatment of Trauma
with Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, Dr. Stephen Porges, Dr. Peter Levine, Dr. Pat Ogden, and Dr. Deb Dana | nicabm National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine

Expert Strategies for Treating Narcissism Course
with Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, Dr. Stephen Porges, and Dr. Peter Levine | nicabm National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine

Somatic Breathwork Practitioner (scheduled for completion late-January 2025)
Soma+IQ Breathwork
Trauma-informed breathwork practitioner training accredited by Arizona State University

Compassionate Inquiry Short Study Course
Introduction to the psychotherapy approach developed by Dr. Gabor Maté

Gender-Inclusive Facilitation Training (GIFT)
ManKind Project

Polyvagal Theory for the Newly Acquainted Workshop
Dr. Stephen Porges

The Wisdom of Trauma
Conference

Trauma-informed Care Training
YESS (Youth Empowerment and Support Services)

Boundaries Training
YESS (Youth Empowerment and Support Services)

Training in Energy Work and the Unseen Realms

Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique (QHHT) Level 2 (underway)
Past life regression hypnosis developed by Dolores Cannon

Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique (QHHT) Level 1
Past life regression hypnosis developed by Dolores Cannon

Andean Sacred Arts
Foundation and Advanced Training in Andean Mysticism
A path of personal power and conscious evolution. Perceiving, tuning, and driving energy for healing of self and others in the lineage of the Inkari and Waskar.
Q’enti Wasi

Shamanic Extraction Healing Training
Removing localized illness and pain due to spiritual factors
The Foundation for Shamanic Studies

Shamanism, Dying and Beyond
Psychopomp work: assisting spirits with transitioning
The Foundation for Shamanic Studies

The Way of the Shaman
Introduction to shamanism
The Foundation for Shamanic Studies

Meditation Teacher Training
Lifestyle Meditation

Cacao Ceremony Facilitation Training Certificate
150-hour program | Fly Kakao

Sound Healing Summit
Conference | The Shift Network

Introduction to Sound Healing
Kailee Smith Healing

Reiki Level 1/2
Kailee Smith Healing

The Art of Channeling Workshop Series
Sara Landon

Astro School
Evolutionary Astrology Training | Rasa Lila Healing

How to Trip Sit
Double Blind Mag

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